What’s more important? Having a satisfied family or having an engaged family?

I may have people disagree with this comment, but I'm not sure increasing family satisfaction should be the ultimate goal. Rather, increasing family engagement will create a winning environment. If your family is engaged, they are loyal, they function well, and they act as partners. Only through involvement and buy-in can you increase family engagement. I realize that our families should be treated as an asset, but trying to satisfy them blurs the lines with accomplishing anything as a family.