Worded
correctly, questions do more than get answers.
They get results – by spurring people to action,
building consensus and clearing up confusion.
Poorly
worded questions, on the other hand, block idea exchange, sap enthusiasm and
even foster resentment.
Effective
questions
Here are
examples of positive questions and when to use them:
Open/direct questions uncover who, what, when, where, why
or how. Use them to encourage others to
share opinions and take ownership of a problem.
Example: “How can we complete this project on time?”
Planted-answer questions imply the specific direction you
want the person’s answer to take. Use
them to gain buy-in. Example: “Don’t you
think this outline needs more work?”
Off-the-hook questions allow people to refuse a request
without losing face. Use them to signal
that others have a choice. Example: “I
know you’ve put in a lot of overtime this week, but would it be possible for
you to stay a little late tonight?”
Ineffective
questions
Try to avoid these morale-sappers:
- Disagreeable questions reduce self-confidence. Often framed as a “challenge,” they’re really
an attack. Example: “None of your other
ideas have worked out. What makes you
think this one will?”
No-way-out questions drive people into corners and
encourage defensive responses. Example:
“As I see it, this is the only solution.
How can you possibly disagree?”
Trick questions are traps to get others to agree
with you because they’re left with little or no choice. Example: “Should we follow my plan or put in
some long hours to revamp it?”
Source: Common
Sense Leadership, by Roger Fulton.
Published by Ten Speed Press.
ISBN 0-89815-743-9
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